Sunday, February 12, 2006

Experiments are good

Saturday morning I had a message waiting for me in my in box from my match date. Seems my proactive clarity about my just looking to see what's out there let her think it through. She decided she wants to date a guy who's open to becoming totally devoted to her. So she's not wanting to pursue things with me.

And that's ok. I don't want to totally adore anyone. I made my wife the center of my universe, and it killed my soul when it became clear we weren't in binary orbit. I'm not out to make any one person the center of my universe. I'm open to connecting with those around me. But no single relationship basket is going to get all of my emotional eggs.