A Match date post mortem
Things I liked:
Things I didn't like:
I think I'd like to see her because I want to see what's it's like to date someone who would go trail run or mountain bike or road bike with me. She's got a hot bod. I don't feel the crazy "Juliet's dead? Then I'll take this poison!" thing, but I think that's fine. It's not a requirement for me right now. And I want to see how things develop when I let her know up front (as I did tonight) that I'm just looking to see what's out there. I think round two I'll make it clear that I'm not looking to date just one girl any time soon. We'll see how that goes. I feel bad for treating human beings with feelings like lab animals, but I'm trying things out. I think the only truly unfair thing would be to place artificial constraints on where the relationship can go. I'm open to what happens. And I have a few specific things I hope to learn.
- Girl was genuine. No BS.
- Happy to break the rules about "stuff not to talk about on a first date".
- Holy crap what a body (pilates instructor! Hello! Mc Fly!).
- Nice eyes.
- Happy to make the first move.
- Lots in common: Philosophy, triathalon, both in same life stage.
- Seems low maintenence.
- She was forward.
- I felt relaxed with her.
- She actually liked that I referred to something she did as "cute".
- I know she's attracted to me.
Things I didn't like:
- Her eyebrows could use a little more refinement in the waxing department.
- She kisses like a kissy fish.
- Safe first date attire, but if she found me hot, she coulda brought it a little harder in the sexy department. Strappy heels and a skirt, please.
I think I'd like to see her because I want to see what's it's like to date someone who would go trail run or mountain bike or road bike with me. She's got a hot bod. I don't feel the crazy "Juliet's dead? Then I'll take this poison!" thing, but I think that's fine. It's not a requirement for me right now. And I want to see how things develop when I let her know up front (as I did tonight) that I'm just looking to see what's out there. I think round two I'll make it clear that I'm not looking to date just one girl any time soon. We'll see how that goes. I feel bad for treating human beings with feelings like lab animals, but I'm trying things out. I think the only truly unfair thing would be to place artificial constraints on where the relationship can go. I'm open to what happens. And I have a few specific things I hope to learn.
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